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Ladies Army mission statement proposal (new thread)

I would like to propose that we write a mission statement for the LA based on the general consensus.

For how long would you like to see the LA continue? Do you think that if the LA continues past our goal of gender equality that it would promote gender based leagues? Is that something you want? What do you think about the idea of the LA being coed, or women's majority as the numbers of women who play polo rise?

Currently women need the LA, not only for feminine empowerment, but for the recognition to be chosen to play on better teams. As of now the LA supports gender equality in polo, but I argue that if the LA continues past our goal of equality, then it will lead to male and female leagues. Gender segregation is the natural progression in sports through history, so given this pattern we can prevent this from happening by the choices we make now. Things that might be obvious to us, like gender equality, might not be so obvious for everyone else and the future generation of polo. So it would be easy for something like the LA to be the seed of gender based leagues. We all know what the LA means to us, but all people know is what they see, and the fact is that the LA is a segregation of the sport. Where will people stand in 5-10 years from now based on what we have planted? This is why I think we should have a mission statement.

So I reposted this, because now that it is not tournament season I would really like to heard back from more people about this. Lisa, Chandel, Kiersten, Leslie, Cecily, Jazz, Mo... wheres my ladies at?

good call, Kayla

encourage, strengthen, build.

unfortunately... in 10 years, we very well could see non coed polo. once this sport explodes and its played in high schools and college campuses all over the world and Quidditch is a long forgotten memory, polo could very easily be taken over as a male sport.

either way... up our numbers now, so if for some reason down the road... we will have enough ladies to survive the split.

and if it stays coed... then hell yeah. more players all around in the league.

give blood. play polo.

Here's a question for every polo player out there: what conditions need to be met in order for you to think that there is gender equality in bike polo?

Pro-friendly bike polo!

Ok so maybe this word is too broad for this topic. Women technically get treated equally. however I have face battles according to my gender that wouldnt exist if I wasnt seen differently for being a women, but that is off topic to this specific discussion. What I mean by gender equality in this discussion is equal women to men. I believe when there are equal women to men, stereotypes around gender would eventually be erased.

its more of an invisible structure that is unequal, but these things need to be address from different angles, and that is what Im doing here. Its about creating a healthy foundation to build off of.

I dont necessarily think that "equal numbers" of women to men in polo are a) ever going to happen or b) going to automatically make for women getting treated equally once you get to the upper tier of tournaments. Thats an earned spot, and Im not saying that we as women should not, or could not earn it, but being given spots just for general inclusions sake doesnt sound like it would appeal to any bad ass lady playing polo.

As much as I love the idea of polo exploding, especially among females, (i believe) its highly unlikely to do so given the trajectory of almost every sport with as much physical play, knowledgeability, and grit (blood falls into this category) involved. Despite that, the possibility of a split is an unfortunate outcome of higher numbers of recreational female players, because for those who [will/do] come to polo to compete know that to be the best you have to play against the best, and that is always going to include men (and of course the less than occasional lady)
Thats why I dont think LA is a bad thing as a singular event during the tournament cycle. I agree with jinxy, "encourage, strengthen, build " its a great way to appeal to females who want to learn to compete and have an initial chance to test strengths, where many would never get past the first day or first couple rounds in a larger tournament when winning is everyones only (kinda, mostly) goal. However, LA has simultaneous goals, (not saying its not a serious tournament) and the fact that there is discussion of a mission statement for a tournament makes it a different breed.

This, ladies place in polo (etc), are great discussions to have and to keep talking about, again and again, to every one who wants to listen learn and play polo. That openness of discussion in and of itself has the potential to shape how future generations of female players decide to go about their group participation. However, I think the specific issue of concern placed on Ladies Army currently or in the near future straining the coed nature of polo is premature. We need more women to play and play often enough to reach the levels that the larger tournaments are played at, and LA is serving that purpose. Im newish, but I have yet to meet a lady polo player who is even talking about separating into gender specific leagues (I think theres only what, london who has enough ladies for one night a week?), nor for that matter any men who seem to have active designs against women not having a chance to compete. But I understand that invisible bias you speak of.

I personally dont think, at this moment, 2/3 majority would be good for LA. It still becomes a battle of the boys at times. However, having the smaller concurrent coed tourney sounds like a good plan to promote open mindedness until there are numbers that exceed the 20 to 1 ratio (really wild 11pm guess on those numbers) we have right now.

KayRAAAAAAAAA

Hi Kayla! I look forward to meeting you and cant wait for you to come and play at a Ladies Army!

I agree with a lot of what you are saying, but I think its getting a little off topic. Key words here "Mission Statement." Im not suggesting changes to be made currently or in the near future.

We govern ourselves, so if we want the future of polo to be coed, it will be coed if we structure it that way.

btw Like almost every major sport out there, regardless if it is co-ed or not, there are close to as many women who play professionally as there are men, and it would probably be a equal number if women were given equal opportunity. Given this pattern one day there will most likely be equal numbers in polo too.

"Currently women need the LA, not only for feminine empowerment, but for the recognition to be chosen to play on better teams" .... I do NOT agree with this statement whatsoever. I understand where you are going with this Kayla, but I do not agree with a lot of the statements you are making. I will gather my thoughts and get back to you.

I will have more to say on this as the discussion grows.

A word on 'mission statements':
A mission statement is a very short declaration of who a person/organization will reach out to (i.e. serve) and how it will accomplish this.

An example, and one that initially came to mind when the few of us ladies started this tournament (though we never quite articulated it) was, "The Ladies Army will provide a place to encourage more women to join the sport of bike polo by hosting an all-women's tournament". This is a very basic example. Although, sometimes simple is best. We just wanted to have fun with all the women we knew who played bike polo, we wanted to encourage more women to play a sport we were all so in love with, and I don't think any of us thought it would get as big, or garner as much attention as it has.

I don't think the longevity of "Ladies Army" need be part of the mission statement. My gut feeling here is that the discussion of a mission statement that would presume Ladies Army will exist, is clouded with other issues that women playing bike polo experience.

I'm going to sit back with having thrown that out there and see how this discussion develops.

L.

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Pitbull wrote:

I don't think the longevity of "Ladies Army" need be part of the mission statement. My gut feeling here is that the discussion of a mission statement that would presume Ladies Army will exist, is clouded with other issues that women playing bike polo experience.

Thank you for bringing this up Lisa, and Kayla Story this is why I said that your response is getting off track, because parts of your comment would be more appropriate for Kiersten's thread "where do women belong". However, I love everything you said and am so happy to see how passionate you are about bike polo! What would Kayla do! future team:)

As of the mission statement, I wanted it to be defined collaboratively without too much of my influence. What I had in mind wasnt for the immediate or near future, and I guess I tried to control that idea too much so that people wouldn't get too defensive. However the more I think about it, London has set a good example with Hell's Bells, and this is something the LA could inherit at any point of time with our numbers. The "mission" of the Ladies Army is to encourage more women to play bike polo, However what is our "statement"? If the consensus is that we dont want a mission statement, then let it be, but let me lay down some lines first.

For the past 3 years LA has went from 9-18 teams.
The original idea behind the La was to encourage more women to play polo in a non-competitive way
With this we have learned that women are just as competitive as men, and for me it has been a very empowering experience
now that numbers are growing past what has ever been imagined, how is this tournament going to shape the future?
I personally see the LA being the seed to gender based leagues. I dont want this, but have already heard a veteran polo player express that she would like to see a women's league.
so with all that that said, would people be open to the idea that once the LA exceeds, say?, 24 teams the fallow ing year it becomes womens majority???
then if in major cities we start to see an equal number of women to men we make the LA coed???

regardless what we do, this tournament will forever tell the story of women in polo, and its up to us to write it. We have that power.

Question: if the teams start to exceed 24 teams would making it ladies majority exclude some lady polo players? Just thinking about whatever city hosts, they might have to cap registration at a certain number and throwing a male into the mix for every team will inevitably create a larger number of teams leaving some girls out, right? I definitely see the point of the 2/3 but I don't want LA to get to a point where its a race for the registration button like a lot of the NAH qualifiers were this past year.

*edit: apologies for getting off topic from the mission statement, just thought the 24 teams idea was an interesting point to bring up.

a hater is still a fan
I don't really give a fuck and my excuse is that I'm young

This isnt getting off topic at all. This is the kind of discussion I would like to see happen here. 24 teams is just a number I threw out there, but this is a good point you bring up.

I have a lot of thoughts about the logistics of this, but its doesnt seem like a lot of people are interested in the mission statement idea, so I want to hear back from more people about this first.

I will say however that one day, who knows when, the LA will get too big to accommodate every lady who wants to play. Inevitably as the sport grows, people will use the LA as an icon for new tournaments. So thats when we ask ourselves. Do we want to see more all womens tournaments, or more coed specific tournaments in the future? More all womens tournaments will further support gender segregation. Just saying.

I agree with Lisa that perhaps the tournament mission statement is getting mixed up in some of the other issues that go along with being a female polo player.

I think having a mission statement for the tournament itself as simple as "The Ladies Army will provide a place to encourage more women to join the sport of bike polo by hosting an all-women's tournament" ... is perfect.

The issues we experiences in the polo community are an expression of our culture at large. It can be frustrating because these problems manifest themselves in our community, yet there is no direct solution for them. It takes time to shift perceptions of gender roles which is what I think we are essentially concerned with.

"Encourage, strengthen, build" is a good underlying philosophy for the women of polo that goes beyond Ladies Army. If we are going to change minds about our place in the world, we need to believe in our collective power first (and I think we do).

I love Ladies Army/the ladies majority tournaments that have been happening and think we should keep that up, but Co-ed Polo Forever. One of the many reasons I love bike polo so much is because it is a co-ed sport currently. My whole life has been spent playing gender separated sports such as soccer, and I got so fed up with not being able to play with the boys just cause I was a girl. We are still as tough and fast as them, and I don't think we should ever be split up. Bike polo started as a co-ed sport and it should stay that way, and I think we should not have to worry about the threat that "the sport will become to big like all the other sports in the world that girls and boys need to be split up" for some reason. We were the ones who started playing polo and we are the ones that organize the sport so we should be able to officially call it a co-ed sport and keep it that way. I think people are so used to it by now cause we all start off playing Co-ed that it shouldn't really be a problem.

You continue to rock my world Quinn.

Officially, the split up of men and women in bike polo is not even on the radar for the tournament committee right now, and as the chair of that committee i don't see it registering with us for this year or next at all.

Ladies Army is a celebrated tournament for it's fun and it's encouragement for women to play. I think we push ourselves further into a separation category by continually bringing up that it's an all women's tournament and women in polo this and women in polo that. We have it, and the boys love it. And it's nice that cities are expanding the LA to have the friday be a coed. It's actually one of the only 3 day tournaments that are for fun and are totally awesome because of that. We also need the guys there, who else would cheer us on that hard, or volunteer to officiate our games?! Most guys LOVE that girls play, and they LOVE that we play hard. So let's play harder and play faster and give ourselves the opportunity to play more WITH them.

see you in lex ladies.

ok, I obviously I suck at this, since no one seems to get my point.
I agree with most everything that people are saying here. Im just saying that there is a time and place for everything, and I believe that if the LA continues the way it is past its time that it will, not does, support gender based leagues, and maybe even rules around gender in tournaments. Thats all. I love the LA. I have been to every one and I will continue to support it until I feel its necessary not to.

pitbull wrote:

said A word on 'mission statements':
A mission statement is a very short declaration of who a person/organization will reach out to (i.e. serve) and how it will accomplish this.

for an example: The LA reaches out to encourage more women to play bike polo, but we never want gender based leagues... is this true to everyone?
and if so, then how do we accomplish this?
Right now the LA accomplishes this.
But does the LA set a good example for coed sports?
Does the LA support gender segregation?
Do you think that if more all womens tournaments happen, that it will support gender based leagues and rules?
Should our mission statemenet be
The LA reaches out to encourage more women to play bike polo, but we dont want more than 1 all womens tournament a years in north america?
or, The LA reaches out to encourage more women to play bike polo, but once we see 30-70% women to men that we make the LA womens majority, and when we see 40-60% it becomes coed specific? or something like that

chandel wrote:

I think we push ourselves further into a separation category by continually bringing up that it's an all women's tournament and women in polo this and women in polo that.

Well that is exactly what the LA does. It pushes us into a separate category, there isnt much furthering that fact. I just see us running into a lot of problems in the future if we ignore this.
Yes we are the minority, and we dont need a bunch of hype around the ways we go about changing this. I just think its important to have a conscious understanding of our actions, because if there was a healthy balance of women to men to begin with, the LA wouldnt exist.

A couple of things:
Developing a mission statement and implementing it are two totally different things. I don't think a discussion forum on LoBP is going to help develop an implementation plan for whatever mission statement we develop for Ladies Army. I think that those kinds of discussions are much better to have in person.

I am just going to throw another observation in here that I think confuses the issue of developing a mission statement. LoBP is an on-line discussion forum, and it is not NAH. NAH is the competitive arm of hardcourt bike polo in North America. Ladies Army has nothing to do with NAH. It is not governed by NAH, it does not have to adhere to the rules developed by NAH, and it doesn't need permission from NAH to exist. I put this in here as I think it affects the discussion of the % of women playing capital "C" competitive bike polo.

I am 100% in favour of continuing the Ladies Army as is: as a fun, yet competitive weekend of polo filled with teams of fabulous women from all over the world. I am hopeful that it can remain that way and that everyone who plays polo, whether you are a woman or not, can see the value it has for this sport, and how much fun it is to support.

Kayla, I think your are complicating the issue of a mission statement. KISS: Keep It Simple Silly. We don't need to limit the number of tournaments we have or the % of women playing the sport.

Can you tell I am desperately trying to keep the bureaucracy out of the Ladies Army??

Pitbull wrote:

Developing a mission statement and implementing it are two totally different things. I don't think a discussion forum on LoBP is going to help develop an implementation plan for whatever mission statement we develop for Ladies Army. I think that those kinds of discussions are much better to have in person.

Well you cant talk to eveyone. That is what LOPB is for. I was just trying to develop the mission statement first.

Pitbull wrote:

I am just going to throw another observation in here that I think confuses the issue of developing a mission statement. LoBP is an on-line discussion forum, and it is not NAH. NAH is the competitive arm of hardcourt bike polo in North America. Ladies Army has nothing to do with NAH. It is not governed by NAH, it does not have to adhere to the rules developed by NAH, and it doesn't need permission from NAH to exist. I put this in here as I think it affects the discussion of the % of women playing capital "C" competitive bike polo.

I dont understand what this has to do with this thread... I posted this thread to hear what other peoples opinion is on this matter, and I dont recall NAH coming up once or it having anything to do with the LA... oh and I didnt know that the % of women playing Competitive bike polo was ever a discussion. Maybe playing competitively isnt natural to you, and correct me if Im wrong that throughing a noncompetitive tournament was a motive behind the creation of the LA, but competitive sports comes very naturally for a lot of women and it never started as a discussion.

Pitbull wrote:

We don't need to limit the number of tournaments we have or the % of women playing the sport.

I dont know how you got this but Im definitely not trying to limit the % of women playing the sport. From the start Lisa when you asked all the women in cascadia what we think about starting an all womens tournament, if you remember, my main concern has always been the segregation that it represents. I have always supported the LA though, because I believed at that time women needed something like the LA to help the % of women playing bike polo. I still believe that we need it, but I dont foresee us needing that extra encouragement once we have the support in numbers.

Pitbull wrote:

Kayla, I think your are complicating the issue of a mission statement. KISS: Keep It Simple Silly.

maybe I am... it was just an idea and unfortunately gender in sports is complex.

Pitbull wrote:

I am 100% in favour of continuing the Ladies Army as is: as a fun, yet competitive weekend of polo filled with teams of fabulous women from all over the world. I am hopeful that it can remain that way and that everyone who plays polo, whether you are a woman or not, can see the value it has for this sport, and how much fun it is to support.

Thank you for your opinion Lisa.

I know I completely picked this apart, but Im just sayin not hatin <3

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I agree that a mission statement as simple as "The Ladies Army will provide a place to encourage more women to join the sport of bike polo by hosting an all-women's tournament" is what we need. I don't think there were ever many sports where there was "a healthy balance of women to men to begin with" like Kayla pointed out. And this especially goes for high contact sports, known to have far fewer women participants than men... So specifically recruiting women to play bike polo is necessary and will be a long-term struggle, and I think the men of polo can recognize this. Bottom line, I think this is setting a good example for other future coed sports.

I also agree that LA is supporting segregation to some extent... Some guys have already voiced that if we can have a women only tourny, why can't they have a all men only? Fair enough right? But I'm not sure that their mission statement for their all male tournament could ever be as positive or purposeful as ours. As long as LA has a clear statement that shows we are not out to particularly exclude guys (and I think having the coed tourny as the opener to the LA tourny helps prove this), but to create a more fun environment for any fresh lady competitors and more welcoming environment as a first impression to potential lady players, LA should continue to be supported by the polo community and NAH. However, increasing numbers of women only tournaments will lead to a greater divide and possibly female leagues and specific rules, because not all of them will be able to claim they actually benefit bike polo as a whole.

As for keeping bike polo coed, it will depend on how NAH chooses to lay the foundation for hardcourt bicycle polo. I think NAH should create some sort of founding document ("Polo constitution"?). It would include obvious things like the NAH sanctioned rules of play, standards of bikes, mallet, courts, etc., qualifier structure, but should also address this broader concern of whether we (as the grassroots/diy movement, founding community that created this new generation of bike polo who understands the closeness and importance of the current bike polo community) want bike polo to be structured into gendered leagues or not. If we don't want this to happen in the near future, maybe we just need to vote in some clause that for the next 5 years segregation into male and female leagues won't even come up as an issue and that tournaments on a regional and national level (at least) must allow both sexes.

Finally, I agree with what Chandel wrote:
I think we push ourselves further into a separation category by continually bringing up that it's an all women's tournament and women in polo this and women in polo that.
Yes, we are girls, we play polo, and we want to influence other ladies to play. As long as we play hard, have fun, and don't whine or expect special treatment at these coed tournies, then I'm sure the rest of the polo community won't complain if we want to have a few events specifically celebrating our success in the sport.